by Sarah Werthan Buttenwieser | May 11, 2010 | Standing In The Shadows
Like many adoptive parents, not until I’d adopted a baby did I learn there’s such a thing as “Birthmother’s Day.” That day falls the day before Mother’s Day, the Saturday, and was designated a day to honor birthmothers. I learned...
by Sarah Werthan Buttenwieser | May 13, 2010 | Standing In The Shadows
Yesterday afternoon, I got a tummy ache, of the suddenly doubled over with cramps variety. I’d planned to work out (didn’t happen), roll on the floor (didn’t happen), have dinner with the kids (didn’t happen), put them to bed early (also...
by Sarah Werthan Buttenwieser | May 15, 2010 | Standing In The Shadows
With full acknowledgement of many potential inherent contradictions contained here, I have always bridled at the notion that parenthood—and perhaps, because it’s more often treated this way, motherhood—is a job. Contradictions arise before the...
by Sarah Werthan Buttenwieser | May 17, 2010 | Standing In The Shadows
I’m part of a somewhat quirky demographic these days. When four counts as pretty many children, and a twelve year-spread between eldest and youngest counts as a pretty big age span, I’ve started to see how—as is the case for every parent at every...
by Sarah Werthan Buttenwieser | May 20, 2010 | Standing In The Shadows
Naptime has its inherent rituals. On the three afternoons Saskia’s been out for the morning at her most charming and perfect of preschools in the universe (Sunnyside Child Care Center—and believe me, I am not biased, I’m just telling the truth re:...