On Shoelaces

If you give a man (or woman, 2012, baby) a fish, he’ll eat for a day. If you give a man (or woman) a fishing pole, he’ll eat forever. If you give your child sneakers with laces, he’ll learn to tie them and be able to wear any damn shoes he...

Time is a Mindbleep

Fourteen years ago (Saturday), at one minute after noon on a sunny day much like yesterday—hot, yellow light after a perfect cool morning—my second boy emerged into the world. Peaceful there in the belly until 25 minutes before his arrival, that would, in...

The Tuesday Three

These days I come into Tuesday with force. Mondays, I try hard to hit the ground running, and get loads of work done. I just began to take a yoga class early evening Mondays, and it’s a new yoga effort for me, a flow class. I am giddy in love with it....

Actual, Real Basics

In the best-case scenario—or even a less-than-best-case scenario—when it comes to babies and parents, love is a given. The basics of babies aren’t about how to carry them or where to have them sleep or which diapers to use. I think they are about how...

The Tuesday Three

I am definitely having a little grass-is-greener moment here. Pretty sure another word for this is burnout. Plus, some solo parent time this week while the dear husband goes off on some work trips this week has me in a state of anticipatory anxiety about the...