by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 5, 2026 | Columns, Featured, Uncategorized
By Yana Tallon-Hicks For the Valley Advocate Dear Yana, I’m in a committed relationship with someone I care about deeply, and I’ve crossed a line I never thought I would — I’m having an affair. I love my partner and we have a real life together. And still, I’ve...
by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 26, 2025 | Columns, Featured, The V-Spot
Hi Yana, I started dating my boyfriend Jules (they/them) in March of this year and we’ve been having a lovely time. They’ve been polyamorous for a while and we’ve agreed on a non-hierarchical relationship. It’s been quite easy, and very dreamy...
by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 10, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot
Dear Yana, I’ve been texting with this guy during quarantine and it’s been very fun and hot. I boss him around and give him writing assignments in exchange for photos of myself which he is suitably grateful for. However, recently he sent me an unsolicited dick pic....
by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 22, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot
Hi Yana! It’s been a month of quarantine, and my boyfriend’s and my different feelings about it are really starting to show. He’s taking more of a wait-this-out approach by sleeping a lot, playing video games, not keeping much of a schedule, etc. I’m working really...
by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 15, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot
Hi Yana, I have a high sex drive and my partner has a low sex drive. How do I navigate this? My sex life has been leaving me disappointed for a while now but I’m afraid of putting pressure on my partner. If I ask for sex I feel like I’m coercing them into it and it...
