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The V-Spot: Anxious, Preoccupied, and Non-Monogamous?

The V-Spot: Anxious, Preoccupied, and Non-Monogamous?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 8, 2019 | Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m currently in a long-term monogamous relationship with my partner, and I am really interested in transitioning our relationship from monogamy to non-monogamy. At my request this past summer, we tried non-monogamy after identifying and agreeing to clear...
The V-Spot: Anxious, Preoccupied, and Non-Monogamous?

The V-Spot: Sex Drives Are Slacking & I Feel Lacking

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 21, 2019 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m a junior in college and I’ve been dating my boyfriend since our freshman year. Initially the relationship was steamy and passionate. I was his first sexual partner so we did a lot of experimenting and discovering together. As is perhaps inevitable, that...
The V-Spot: Help! NRE Feels Bad to Me!

The V-Spot: Help! NRE Feels Bad to Me!

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 8, 2019 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Uncategorized

Dear Yana, How do I stay chill when I’m interested in somebody new? Getting too excited (read: obsessed) with new people is no good for any of my relationships, regardless of how well the new connection is going. I’m a polyamorous person with a wonderful,...
The V-Spot: Anxious, Preoccupied, and Non-Monogamous?

The V-Spot: How Do I Get Fit to Be Tied?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 24, 2018 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Hi Yana I’ve got some sex stuff on my mind, mostly about BDSM/kink. I’m a kinskter just getting my footing in the local (Western Mass) scene and was wondering what sorts of resources other than FetLife are available. I also wanted to ask about ropes, and...
The V-Spot: Anxious, Preoccupied, and Non-Monogamous?

The V-Spot: I’m Still Texting with a Ghost

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 11, 2018 | Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I met a man on Tinder about a year ago, and we were unable to meet in person for over a month due to scheduling issues. In that time, we texted everyday for hours and when we were finally able to meet in person, I felt an intense connection with him. We met...
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