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The V-Spot: The Birds & The Bees & The Herpes

The V-Spot: The Birds & The Bees & The Herpes

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 27, 2018 | Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! When it comes to sex, I’ve never really cared for it to begin with. Then, five years ago, I found out I have genital herpes, and that put an even bigger damper on things. I’ve had sexual partners since then, but having to have “the talk” before getting...
The V-Spot: The Birds & The Bees & The Herpes

The V-Spot: Help! I Resent My Metamour!

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 8, 2018 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! I’ve been in a non-monogamous relationship for over three years. Last year, one of my partners and I broke up in dramatic fashion. I partially blame my primary partner for this, because although he said he was okay being in a non-monogamous...
The V-Spot: The Birds & The Bees & The Herpes

The V-Spot: Oops, I Had a Threesome

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Oct 11, 2018 | Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I made a rookie mistake. I had a spur-of-the-moment, sober threesome with a couple I’ve been friends with for over 12 years. They visited me from across the country. We are very close friends and I’m feeling very tender now. I’m feeling like it wasn’t a big...
The V-Spot: The Birds & The Bees & The Herpes

The V-Spot: What Do I Do About My GF’s Long Nails?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 1, 2018 | Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I started dating a girl recently who always wears really long nails. Like the type that are super pointy at the end and as long as her pinky fingers are (they are super cool!). After we started dating she mentioned something about thinking about cutting them,...
The V-Spot: The Birds & The Bees & The Herpes

The V-Spot: I Wanna Be Topped by My Top Surgeon

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Oct 26, 2018 | Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! I’ve been struggling a bit for the last few weeks. I’m a little bitty trans guy who recently had top surgery and I somehow managed to get it bad for my surgeon. Fantasizing about her is one thing (I should also mention that I’m a sub), but it’s grown into...
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