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The V-Spot: My Libido’s Got the Post-Birth Blues

The V-Spot: My Libido’s Got the Post-Birth Blues

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Sep 28, 2018 | Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I gave birth a beautiful baby girl about three months ago. And it’s wonderful! She is a good sleeper and I generally feel like “we got this.” Problem is, I’ve had, like, zero libido since I gave birth. My husband is clearly (politely) dying...
The V-Spot: Is a Good Lay The ONE?

The V-Spot: Is a Good Lay The ONE?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Sep 14, 2018 | Columns, Featured, The V-Spot, Uncategorized

Hi Yana, Can you even find The ONE when searching for The One? I know that when searching for The One, you have a list of all the things you’re attracted to, but what if those things are what are bad for you? Like, when you’re into hot and rough sex and you find the...
The V-Spot: Is a Good Lay The ONE?

The V-Spot: Is My BF Having Multiple Orgasms?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Aug 24, 2018 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, My boyfriend and I have been together for six years but only recently discovered that he can have multiple orgasms. If he puts his penis back inside me or if I stimulate just the tip a few seconds after he has orgasmed he can ejaculate a second time. At first...
The V-Spot: Help My Partner Help Me

The V-Spot: Help My Partner Help Me

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Aug 14, 2018 | Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Dear Yana, I’m a queer woman in my late 20s living in the U.S., and my girlfriend lives overseas. In the 2.5 years we’ve been together, about half that time has been long distance, and about half together. We’re absolutely crazy about each other and...
The V-Spot: My Libido’s Got the Post-Birth Blues

V-Spot: Are We Screwed if We Stop Screwing?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jul 29, 2018 | Columns, Featured, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! My partner and I have been dating since October and from the beginning have had really intense sexual energy for each other (like every day, sometimes multiple times). But in the last week or two it’s sort of died out for a number of reasons. I can’t help but...
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