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V-Spot: Help Me Kick My Hitachi Addiction

V-Spot: Help Me Kick My Hitachi Addiction

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 17, 2018 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

HELP YANA! I’m addicted to my Hitachi! I’ve had a primary partner for just under a year. The sex is awesome, intimate, and fun. However, very rarely can I have sex and get off without using toys, and I think it’s starting to frustrate them. I don’t have a lot of...
V-Spot: Teach My Nice Guy to Play Rough

V-Spot: Teach My Nice Guy to Play Rough

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 9, 2018 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Writer’s note: This column contains mention of rape/non-consensual sex. Hey Yana!! I’ve been dating the sweetest guy. Well, sweet in ways that he always helps with housework, takes care of my dog for me, and is ALWAYS there for me. He’s a solid and loyal dude which is...
V-Spot: Teach My Nice Guy to Play Rough

The V-Spot: My Boyfriend is … Tied Up

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 4, 2018 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’ve been dating a new guy for about four months. He’s honest and makes time for me. He’s also really exciting, and after going through a lot of painful previous relationships, I actually feel safe with him. Our sex life is amazing, and he...
V-Spot: Teach My Nice Guy to Play Rough

V-Spot: I’m Hesitant to Receive Touch

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 26, 2018 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Content Warning: This column mentions childhood and adult sexual abuse and violence. Hey there! This is a question but also a need for some clarity and reassurance. I’m a 20-something bi female living in Portland, Oregon. I consider myself a sexual, curious, and...
V-Spot: Teach My Nice Guy to Play Rough

The V-Spot: My BF’s Back Pain Killed Our Sex Life

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 19, 2018 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! I’ve been with my partner for a year. He’s in his mid-30s and has some chronic back pain from a sports accident that happened a few years ago and he still takes pain meds for. Our sex life is nonexistent right now. We agree we both want more sex and that his...
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