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V-Spot: I’m Feeld-ing Threesomes

V-Spot: I’m Feeld-ing Threesomes

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 12, 2018 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Dear Yana, In my post-big-breakup dating life, I’ve decided to start using Feeld [a dating app that’s basically Tinder for couples and singles seeking to be matched for threesome arrangements]. I’ve always been open to the idea of a three-way both sexually and as a...
The V-Spot: How Do I Find Someone Who’s Got Their Shit Together?

The V-Spot: How Do I Find Someone Who’s Got Their Shit Together?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 6, 2018 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m no longer satisfied with the type of love I attract. After my most recent heartbreak, and having to face the thought of getting back on the online dating horse, I’m willing to admit that something isn’t working here, and it might be me....
V-Spot: I’m Feeld-ing Threesomes

The V-Spot: My Lover and My Bestie Are Dating

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 23, 2018 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi there! I’m an early 30s, cis, brown, queer non-monogamous woman. My question is about a situation I find myself in with a lover and my best friend. This best friend is my Bestie, my chosen family. The lover is my first male lover in over a decade. (I was with...
The V-Spot: Friends with Bad Benefits

The V-Spot: Friends with Bad Benefits

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 19, 2018 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I have a conundrum! I recently started going on dates with a friend of a friend, and it wasn’t until our third date last week that I realized that, as much as I like them, I don’t think I’m sexually attracted to them. We’ve known each other for about a year...
V-Spot: How Do I Tell Someone I Have a Sexually Transmitted Infection?

V-Spot: How Do I Tell Someone I Have a Sexually Transmitted Infection?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 15, 2018 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, Valley Show Girl

Hi Yana, I recently found out after my 21-year pap smear that I carry HPV (human papillomavirus). It’s incredibly annoying that even though I’ve been tested all my life, a very common STI can still be transferred to me. It was also troubling that after...
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