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The V-Spot: I Keep Falling for Straight Girls

The V-Spot: I Keep Falling for Straight Girls

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 20, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m a 20-year-old student at one of the local women’s colleges. I’m gay and have been out for five years, though I’ve never dated anyone. I figured that it wouldn’t be too tricky to find someone here, since there’s a pretty large population of people who...
The V-Spot: I Keep Falling for Straight Girls

The V-Spot: I’m So Excited and…

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 13, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hey Yana, I just read a list of codependent behaviors on the internet and realized a ton of them describe the ways I have navigated/still navigate my relationships. Particularly: getting upset/stressed about other people’s problems and trauma, abandoning my...
Valley V-Spot: My Partner is a Porn Addict, Now What?

Valley V-Spot: My Partner is a Porn Addict, Now What?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 6, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, My partner has struggled with a pornography/masturbation addiction since he was a teen. I’m not against self pleasure. In fact, I believe it’s important and wonderful for everyone to experience, even when partnered. We’ve been together for 4 years, and our...
The V-Spot: I Keep Falling for Straight Girls

The V-Spot: How Do I Make Sexual Suggestions?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Oct 30, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Dear Yana, I’m a 30-something guy in a long-term relationship with a bisexual woman. She’s got a high sex drive and wants to have sex almost constantly. My desire doesn’t really match up with hers but I wonder if the issue is really that her sexual techniques don’t...
V-Spot: Watching Porn in Public with Bella Vendetta (NSFW Trailer Included)

V-Spot: Watching Porn in Public with Bella Vendetta (NSFW Trailer Included)

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Oct 23, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Editor’s note: This week instead of answering a reader question, Yana writes about an event she co-sponsored involving, well … read on! It’s not what you’d expect — this whole watching porn in a room full of strangers with your friends thing. On Saturday night,...
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