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V-Spot: How To Make Your Own Lube

V-Spot: How To Make Your Own Lube

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 30, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Editor’s Note: While V-Spot sex pert Yana Tallon-Hicks is away on vacation, the Advocate is re-running one of her most popular columns ever, a 2013 story on how to make sexual lubrication, “Farmers Lube,” using household items. On my kitchen counter is a glass jar...
The V-Spot: Does That Guy Ask Everyone Out?

The V-Spot: Does That Guy Ask Everyone Out?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 22, 2017 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Where is the line between “If you like someone, ask them out!” and “Oh, that guy asks everyone out”??? — Master Dater From your question, it sounds like you like a lot of people. Maybe you’re getting some flack for that from friends or foes? True, you don’t want to...
The V-Spot: Should I Dump My Triad?

The V-Spot: Should I Dump My Triad?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 15, 2017 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

I’m a bisexual woman and I’m the third wheel to a married bisexual male couple. We’ve been dating for about a year-and-a-half and so far things have been running pretty smoothly. We see each other two or three times a week for dates, group sex, and just regular...
The V-Spot: Should I Dump My Triad?

The V-Spot: Am I Gay/Queer Because of Sexual Trauma?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 8, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Editor’s Note: This column addresses rape, childhood sexual abuse, PTSD, and sexual orientation as a symptom of trauma. I’m in my late teens and have identified as gay/queer for the last few years. I have dated/hooked up with a few non-binary folks and trans guys, but...
V-Spot: How To Make Your Own Lube

The V-Spot: How Do I Introduce My Girlfriend To Polyamory?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 1, 2017 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

I recently began a polyamorous relationship with my girlfriend. We dated previously, but things didn’t work out due to extenuating circumstances, but we remained friends. We’ve recently gotten back together with a different foundation to the relationship. She...
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