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The V-Spot: How Do We Get the Mood Back?

The V-Spot: How Do We Get the Mood Back?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 27, 2017 | Arts, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time. We moved in together six months ago into our new home in New Mexico. But, I’m really not feeling our sex life lately. I feel bad because my boyfriend is amazing, but I’m never ever in the mood to...
The V-Spot: My Boyfriend Might Be Gay. Should I Care?

The V-Spot: My Boyfriend Might Be Gay. Should I Care?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 20, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Featured, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

I recently began “dating” my best guy friend over this winter break. He’s told me that he was raised by a super religious mom and that when he was younger he “rebelled,” and experimented with other men, which he blamed on his homophobic upbringing. He told me he’s had...
The V-Spot: How to Have a Discussion about Self Lovin’

The V-Spot: How to Have a Discussion about Self Lovin’

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 13, 2017 | Articles, Columns, News, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

I’m a 19-year-old male college student. I just started to masturbate, but I don’t know how other people will react if I get into a relationship with them and tell them about this. I would like to know how to be fully comfortable with pleasuring myself as well as see...
The V-Spot: How Do We Get the Mood Back?

The V-Spot: Open Sex, Closed Convos

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 6, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

I’ve been in an on-again/off-again, oftentimes long-distance, relationship with my for-now ex-boyfriend for six years. Right now we have a “when we’re together, we’re together” arrangement and we’ve defined our relationship as open in the past.Well, things are...
The V-Spot: My Boyfriend Might Be Gay. Should I Care?

The V-Spot: Finding a Less-Intense Vibrator

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 30, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Bad Vibes Dear Yana,I want a new vibrator. The problem is that my body is SO sensitive that even the first setting on all of them are way too intense for me. I could do it manually, but I’m lazy. Advice? — Vibrators Can Buzz Off Dear Buzz Off, First thing’s first:...
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