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The V-Spot: I Told My Boyfriend I’d Try Monogamy, But …

The V-Spot: I Told My Boyfriend I’d Try Monogamy, But …

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 9, 2017 | Columns, Featured, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana, I’m in a relationship with someone who I really love and we’ve been together for three-ish months. Before we started dating he knew I wasn’t a huge fan of monogamy, but I agreed I would try and now I’m feeling trapped. He’s so important to me and I don’t want...
The V-Spot: The Fast and the Curious

The V-Spot: The Fast and the Curious

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 3, 2017 | Articles, Columns, News, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

Sometimes, when I’m in the mood to masturbate, I enjoy watching porn. The problem is when I do, it literally takes me no time to orgasm. Yesterday, I was feeling in the mood to enjoy myself. So, I started browsing some videos.I barely started touching myself and felt...
The V-Spot: The Fast and the Curious

The V-Spot: Seeking Sex-Positive Ed for My Niece

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 27, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hey Yana, Over Thanksgiving I spent some time with my awesome 18-year-old niece. I’m in need of your wisdom about a situation I’m trying to wrap my 30-year-old, feminist, protective brain around. My niece lives in a small town, far from her friends, and has been...
The V-Spot: The Fast and the Curious

The V-Spot: My Guy Shoots the Moon Too Soon

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 19, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi, Yana! I’m a 22-year-old woman in a hetero relationship with a guy I’ve been seeing for almost a year. We have a loving and communicative sex life, but are perplexed by a persisting issue! When we are fooling around, he occasionally ejaculates early...
The V-Spot: My BF Hangs with my Ex-BFF

The V-Spot: My BF Hangs with my Ex-BFF

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 12, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana, I used to have a very toxic friendship with one of my female friends. She always made jokes at my expense, was very judgemental, temperamental, and didn’t show me much respect. I cut off ties with her, but she and my boyfriend of over two years are...
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