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The V-Spot: How Do I Get Better At Poly?

The V-Spot: How Do I Get Better At Poly?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 14, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I heard you on Dawn Serra’s podcast Sex Gets Real and really appreciated what you had to say about personal boundaries in new polyamorous relationships. I’m a straight guy and my wife just started sleeping with another woman a couple of months ago. I thought...
The V-Spot: Staying Sexy in Our 60s

The V-Spot: Staying Sexy in Our 60s

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 7, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I am a 66-year-old man who is in love, and in a new relationship, with a very sexually active 60-year-old woman. I have come to the conclusion that I could use some help in fulfilling her sexual needs. Can you recommend any particular vibrators and/or other...
The V-Spot: How Do I Get Better At Poly?

The V-Spot: My Man’s Got Herpes; Now What?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Oct 31, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

I’ve recently begun a relationship with a man who has herpes. It’s unclear if it’s HSV-1 or -2 or both. He has scheduled an appointment with his doctor. I’ve been tested and am negative for that, hepatitis, and all other STDs. It’s important for me to know all the...
The V-Spot: Staying Sexy in Our 60s

The V-Spot: My BF Is About to Leave Me; What Do I Do?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Oct 24, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! My boyfriend and I are approaching our four year anniversary. He recently called me and asked if he could vent to me about what he’s been feeling. He got diagnosed with anxiety and depression this past summer, but stopped going to therapy when he went back to...
The V-Spot: Staying Sexy in Our 60s

The V-Spot: Let’s Do Munch!

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Oct 17, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hey Yana, I am totally new to BDSM [bondage and discipline/sadism and maso- chism]. Someone told me about a “munch” happening locally tomorrow night. They found it through the FetLife website and suggested I go. Do you know anything about these “munch” meetups? How...
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