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The V-Spot: Help! I’ve DepoShot my Libido in the Foot

The V-Spot: Help! I’ve DepoShot my Libido in the Foot

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Oct 10, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana,I’ve been on the Depo shot for two months now and I have no sex drive. No desire whatsoever. I Googled it and it’s normal for women on the shot to feel this way.Do you have any tips or sex hacks to help me and my BF out? I’m sure he’s tired of coming home to...
The V-Spot: I’m Dating Three Women; Does That Make Me Polyamorous?

The V-Spot: I’m Dating Three Women; Does That Make Me Polyamorous?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Sep 26, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

I’m a 38 yo male currently involved with three women. One is a long distance relationship. We met at a concert and had one night together and stayed in touch. We speak regularly on various chat and texts. Two is a nonsexual relationship. She spends the night and...
The V-Spot: Help! I’ve DepoShot my Libido in the Foot

The V-Spot: SOS! I’m Spaced Out During Sex

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Oct 3, 2016 | Articles, Columns, News, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

Yana, I need your expertise!I’m a 19-year-old guy in a hetero relationship. I was pleasuring my partner last night and I realized I stopped being present and could not become present again. She picked up on it and, well, I really wanted to be present for it but I...
The V-Spot: Help! I’ve DepoShot my Libido in the Foot

The V-Spot: I’ve Had Enough With Vaginismus

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Sep 19, 2016 | Articles, Columns, News, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Editor’s Note: Sexual trauma addressed in this week’s column.Hi Yana,I really appreciate your column and the work that you do. I have a really embarrassing sex problem. I was sexually abused throughout various parts of my life, starting in my childhood and going into...
The V-Spot: Help! I’ve DepoShot my Libido in the Foot

The V-Spot: My 2-Minute Orgasm

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Sep 12, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

So, I was masturbating last night and set a timer. It took me under two minutes to orgasm. However, when someone else in involved, it takes forever or doesn’t happen at all. I can count the times it’s happened on two hands.Every time I masturbate it’s like...
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