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V Spot: How Long Do I Stay in My Marriage?

V Spot: How Long Do I Stay in My Marriage?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 13, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Yana, I’ve recently come to terms with the fact that I don’t want to be in my marriage anymore. One reason is that I’m going through a period of intense awakening — I’m connecting more deeply to my emotions and my body while also healing from childhood trauma. Part of...
V Spot: How Long Do I Stay in My Marriage?

V-Spot: Is He Cheating By Watching Porn?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 6, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Note: In this column, we talk about gender-exotifying porn. Hi There, I have a major problem and don’t know how to proceed here. I’ve been married for 15 years and the last 10 have been sexless. To be clear, I’m the woman and he’s the man who chooses not to have sex....
V Spot: How Long Do I Stay in My Marriage?

V-Spot: How do I stop avoiding my partners’ partners?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 30, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! I’ve been practicing polyamory for three years. Right now I have two serious partners. Both of them have sex with other people occasionally, but not with any regularity. My jealousy isn’t nonexistent, but it’s manageable. My big problem is that once my...
The V-Spot: How To Kiss With Consent

The V-Spot: How To Kiss With Consent

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 23, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, Often when speaking of sexual comfort and consent, people focus on the stages of intimacy that involve contact with the areas of our bodies we normally keep clothed. Kissing and intimate touch are viewed more often as foreplay and I seldom encounter guides to...
V Spot: How Long Do I Stay in My Marriage?

V-Spot: I’m Tiptoeing Around His Erectile Dysfunction

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 16, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Dear Yana, I’ve been dating my current partner for almost two years now and our relationship has been great with the exception of our dwindling to now nonexistent sex life. It was amazing for the first six months until he starting having some health problems. His sex...
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