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The V-Spot: I Love Anal, But It Hurts

The V-Spot: I Love Anal, But It Hurts

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 18, 2016 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana, My boyfriend and I have recently started exploring anal play. We’re starting small with just his finger. We use plenty of lube and it goes in pretty easily and isn’t painful at all, but almost every time we’ve done anal play, I’ve bled the next day and been...
The V-Spot: My BF is Pushing for Polyamory

The V-Spot: My BF is Pushing for Polyamory

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 11, 2016 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana, My partner and I have been together for five months. He wants to be polyamorous, specifically to have sex and be in relationships with other women. He recently got out of a long term relationship so he doesn’t really want to be in a serious relationship now,...
The V-Spot: Hooking Up Online

The V-Spot: Hooking Up Online

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 4, 2016 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Dear Yana, I’m seeking out dating websites that have individuals who are thoughtful and open to trying or having more casual sex, but also respect boundaries in sexual exploration. I don’t trust Craigslist, and I’m not really into OKCupid or Tinder. I would love some...
The V-Spot: Dry-humping Better Than Sex

The V-Spot: Dry-humping Better Than Sex

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 28, 2015 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana, I’m an 18-year-old girl with a sex question. I don’t orgasm during sex with a guy, but I usually do orgasm when we’re dry-humping. Do you have any advice about how sex could be made better for me? I still want to have sex to pleasure my partner, but it’s...
The V-Spot: Vaginally High  and Dry

The V-Spot: Vaginally High and Dry

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 21, 2015 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Dear Yana, At my last vaginal exam, the doctor could barely get her fingers inside and absolutely couldn’t insert the speculum. She said that I had vaginal atrophy. I’m in my late 50s and my doctor suggested hormone replacement therapy. I am interested in...
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