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V Spot: How Do I Talk To My Partner Directly?

V Spot: How Do I Talk To My Partner Directly?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Sep 30, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Dear Yana, I’ve noticed that quite often in your column you point people in the direction of clear, direct communication in relationships; establishing boundaries, asking for what you need, and so on, which is great advice that always feels so simple and elegant when...
V Spot: How Do I Talk To My Partner Directly?

V-Spot: Actually, I will answer this fake question

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Sep 24, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Dear Yana, My attachment style is avoidant Scorpio but my partner is a totally secure Gemini. He says anal sex will fix all of my avoidance problems, but I think we should just bring in a third and be polyamorous instead. What do you think we should do? Sincerely,...
V Spot: How Do I Talk To My Partner Directly?

V-Spot: How Do I Raise a Sex-Positive Kid?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Sep 16, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! My partner and I are people who were raised in households where sex was not discussed; indeed, in my house all questions and curiosity about sex were avoided and suppressed. As such, as adults and now parents of a young child, I feel we need support and tools...
V Spot: How Do I Talk To My Partner Directly?

The V-Spot: Yana’s short-and-sweet anal education

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Sep 9, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, My husband just started letting me put a finger up his anus for stimulation and he’s loving it. Now, how do I make sure I’m pleasuring him in the best way possible? —Derriere Digiter Dear Digiter, My two main pieces of advice for making sure your partner is...
The V-Spot: Get Off the Metaphorical Tit

The V-Spot: Get Off the Metaphorical Tit

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Sep 5, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, My fiancé is sick and was just like “I’m gonna call my mom for soup” and he (LOL) has done shit like this since we moved out on our own. Like, I’m here – ready, willing, and able to take care of you. Get off the tit. I feel like I’m crazy, but at the same...
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