Working Out the Kinks

Coming out of the closet isn’t easy. Especially if yours is filled with whips, chains and mascot costumes (see last week’s “Thinkin’ About Kinkin'”). Whether you’re married or on the prowl, if you’ve got a fetish, you’re...

Your Vagina and You

Vaginal discharge has been instilling cultural fear and has been used and abused as a lame cunnilingus hall-pass for far too long. I don’t know why these vag-phobic boys think their balls smell like a bunch of fresh-picked daises when we’re giving you blow...

Ten Orgasm Are Better Than One

I’m pissed at you guys. I’m starting to think that I only write this column for my two loyal fans—my wife (obligatory) and Westfield Wonder Woman (WWW), the hopelessly sexually exploratory and loyal-as-lice V-Spot reader who’s managed to write...

Boys in Bustiers

Every time you stop into Northampton’s sensuality shop Oh My, you learn something new. Even me. Today, I swung by to grab a quick bottle of lube and turns out, not only is there a new silicone vibrator that looks like a pink cherry-topped cupcake (cute and...