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The V-Spot: Sex Drives Are Slacking & I Feel Lacking

The V-Spot: Sex Drives Are Slacking & I Feel Lacking

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 21, 2019 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m a junior in college and I’ve been dating my boyfriend since our freshman year. Initially the relationship was steamy and passionate. I was his first sexual partner so we did a lot of experimenting and discovering together. As is perhaps inevitable, that...
The V-Spot: Help! NRE Feels Bad to Me!

The V-Spot: Help! NRE Feels Bad to Me!

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 8, 2019 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Uncategorized

Dear Yana, How do I stay chill when I’m interested in somebody new? Getting too excited (read: obsessed) with new people is no good for any of my relationships, regardless of how well the new connection is going. I’m a polyamorous person with a wonderful,...
The V-Spot: Sex Drives Are Slacking & I Feel Lacking

The V-Spot: How Do I Get Fit to Be Tied?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 24, 2018 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Hi Yana I’ve got some sex stuff on my mind, mostly about BDSM/kink. I’m a kinskter just getting my footing in the local (Western Mass) scene and was wondering what sorts of resources other than FetLife are available. I also wanted to ask about ropes, and...
The V-Spot: Sex Drives Are Slacking & I Feel Lacking

The V-Spot: The Birds & The Bees & The Herpes

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 27, 2018 | Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! When it comes to sex, I’ve never really cared for it to begin with. Then, five years ago, I found out I have genital herpes, and that put an even bigger damper on things. I’ve had sexual partners since then, but having to have “the talk” before getting...
The V-Spot: Sex Drives Are Slacking & I Feel Lacking

The V-Spot: Help! I Resent My Metamour!

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 8, 2018 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! I’ve been in a non-monogamous relationship for over three years. Last year, one of my partners and I broke up in dramatic fashion. I partially blame my primary partner for this, because although he said he was okay being in a non-monogamous...
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