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The V-Spot: We’ve Got Different Sex Drives

The V-Spot: We’ve Got Different Sex Drives

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 16, 2018 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, My partner and I seem to be in different places when it comes to sex. We have fabulous sex when he’s up to it, but in general I have a higher sex drive and want to be more adventurous. We both have histories of trauma and deal with it in different ways. I’m...
The V-Spot: I Get Ghosted After One Night

The V-Spot: I Get Ghosted After One Night

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 2, 2018 | Articles, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’ve had an above-average number of sexual partners (70+) and at least half have been one night stands. The pattern is: I start talking to someone on OKCupid, we arrange for a date, we have a few drinks, have sex. Sometimes, it’s more mutual, and neither of...
The V-Spot: I Get Ghosted After One Night

V-Spot: How Do We Weather the Storm?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 26, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, My boyfriend of three years and I are both going through a really tough time. My parents are divorcing, he’s applying to schools, and plus our relationship has been long distance for the past two years. We’re both depressed, and I’ve been asking him to go to...
Letters to the Editor: Scared of Inexperienced Bully Trump with Nukes

Letters to the Editor: Scared of Inexperienced Bully Trump with Nukes

by Letters from our readers | Dec 26, 2017 | Articles, Letters from our Readers, News

Editor’s Note: Welcome to our letters to the editor page. Here you’ll find reader comments on Advocate articles and other news. We collect readers’ opinions from emails, letters, Facebook comments, and comments to valleyadvocate.com. Want to get in on this? Email...
The V-Spot: I Get Ghosted After One Night

V-Spot: How Do I Tell Dates I’m Heartless?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 18, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Food Booze and Beyond, News, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Dear Yana, I have a cold, dead heart. Well, not really but pretty much, yeah. I was married to my ex-wife for nearly a decade and the end of our relationship was really complicated. I feel almost certain that I don’t have the capacity to be in love or be in a...
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