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The V-Spot: Does That Guy Ask Everyone Out?

The V-Spot: Does That Guy Ask Everyone Out?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 22, 2017 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Where is the line between “If you like someone, ask them out!” and “Oh, that guy asks everyone out”??? — Master Dater From your question, it sounds like you like a lot of people. Maybe you’re getting some flack for that from friends or foes? True, you don’t want to...
The V-Spot: How Do I Introduce My Girlfriend To Polyamory?

The V-Spot: How Do I Introduce My Girlfriend To Polyamory?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 1, 2017 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

I recently began a polyamorous relationship with my girlfriend. We dated previously, but things didn’t work out due to extenuating circumstances, but we remained friends. We’ve recently gotten back together with a different foundation to the relationship. She...
The V-Spot: My Sex Drive’s Back But My BF’s Isn’t

The V-Spot: My Sex Drive’s Back But My BF’s Isn’t

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 24, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Leisure, The V-Spot, Wellness

Writer’s note: This column mentions depression and suicidality. When me and my BF first got together about a year and a half ago, we were having the best sex of our lives! Then I decided with the help of my therapist that I needed to be medicated due to suicidal...
Pee or ‘squirt’? Understanding female ejaculation

Pee or ‘squirt’? Understanding female ejaculation

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 10, 2017 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

I started masturbating when I was in high school and there would be times where something would feel good, but then I would feel my muscles relax and suddenly my bed would be wet with pee — sometimes a lot of pee. It was like in certain positions I had no control over...
Pee or ‘squirt’? Understanding female ejaculation

The V-Spot: When Did I Get on the Relationship Escalator?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 3, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

I have a few questions about monogamy. I guess, part of it stemming from a recent post I saw on your Instagram — @the_vspot — about “The Relationship Escalator,” polyamory, and monogamy. In my last partnership, my partner and I were very intentional about not falling...
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