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The V-Spot: I’m a Queer Woman in a Hetero Marriage

The V-Spot: I’m a Queer Woman in a Hetero Marriage

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 28, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

I’ve been thinking about writing to you for a long time. My husband and I are about to celebrate 11 years as a couple and we’ve been married for six. It’s been amazing and so much fun to spend all of this time on planet Earth with such a soul-mate dreamboat of a life...
The V-Spot: Are We Ready for a Threesome?

The V-Spot: Are We Ready for a Threesome?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 21, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

Me and my boyfriend of two years are looking to have a threesome. We are wanting to try it with a female, and a male. We are wanting to do this to enhance our sex life, and are not looking to add anyone into our relationship. We are both very open and honest with each...
The V-Spot: How Do I Get Better At Poly?

The V-Spot: How Do I Get Better At Poly?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 14, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I heard you on Dawn Serra’s podcast Sex Gets Real and really appreciated what you had to say about personal boundaries in new polyamorous relationships. I’m a straight guy and my wife just started sleeping with another woman a couple of months ago. I thought...
The V-Spot: How Do I Get Better At Poly?

The V-Spot: My Man’s Got Herpes; Now What?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Oct 31, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

I’ve recently begun a relationship with a man who has herpes. It’s unclear if it’s HSV-1 or -2 or both. He has scheduled an appointment with his doctor. I’ve been tested and am negative for that, hepatitis, and all other STDs. It’s important for me to know all the...
The V-Spot: Are We Ready for a Threesome?

The V-Spot: My BF Is About to Leave Me; What Do I Do?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Oct 24, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! My boyfriend and I are approaching our four year anniversary. He recently called me and asked if he could vent to me about what he’s been feeling. He got diagnosed with anxiety and depression this past summer, but stopped going to therapy when he went back to...
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