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The V-Spot: Babe Needs to Break Up

The V-Spot: Babe Needs to Break Up

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jul 11, 2016 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

Dear Yana,I want to break up with my boyfriend of a few years. As we both near 30 I’m getting clearer that he’s just not the guy for me.But here’s the thing: We live together. We have a lease together. We share a car and a cat and just have so many logistical ties to...
The V-Spot: Double the Pleasure: Synced Orgasms

The V-Spot: Double the Pleasure: Synced Orgasms

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jul 5, 2016 | Articles, Newsletter, Wellness

Hi Yana,I recently attended one of your workshops about the G-spot and it worked! My partner and I went home that night and I squirted. But it’s so strange because when I squirt it doesn’t happen as I climax. It isn’t like a climactic orgasm. It just feels crazy good...
The V-Spot: Babe Needs to Break Up

The V-Spot: Why Can’t I Have Sex Without Drinking?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jun 14, 2016 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Editor’s Note: Sexual trauma is addressed in this week’s column.Hi Yana,I can’t seem to want to have sex unless I’m drunk.This has always kind of been the case, except for when I was a teenager, and horny all the time (and not drinking). Then when I got to...
The V-Spot: Babe Needs to Break Up

The V-Spot: I’m stuck in a cum-nundrum!

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jun 6, 2016 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana, My partner (cis-male) and I (queer bisexual lady) enjoy getting super hot and bothered with each other, but we’re both frustrated with my seeming inability to orgasm. When we’re fooling around, just warming up, sometimes clitoral stimulation gets...
The V-Spot: Babe Needs to Break Up

The V-Spot: How Can I Be Poly, With A Heart?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 31, 2016 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana,I’m in my early 30s and have been polyamorous for a couple of years. Not long ago my wife of 13 years and I split. Now I’m kind of going through a dating/poly crisis. I strongly identify as poly despite not really having a primary relationship....
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