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The V-Spot: Why Do I Cry After Climax?

The V-Spot: Why Do I Cry After Climax?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 26, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m perplexed as to why, for the last 20 years, I start bawling like a baby when I masturbate and orgasm. It only happens when I envision my ex-lover, who I had a five-year extramarital affair with in the ‘90s. We were both musicians in a college town. We...
The V-Spot: Why Do I Cry After Climax?

The V-Spot: How Do We Get Our Sex Life Back After Abortion?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 18, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hey Yana, A couple weeks ago my boyfriend and I decided we weren’t ready to have a baby just yet in our life, and we got an abortion. After previously going through one in an abusive relationship years ago, this time was much easier on me and he was very supportive...
The V-Spot: What’s Wrong With My Sex Drive?

The V-Spot: What’s Wrong With My Sex Drive?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 11, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Content note: This column talks about non-consensual sex and traumatic reactions. Hi Yana, I’m a 24-year-old woman and I’ve had no sexual desire since my teens. When I was 18, I went out with a boy from my high school and when we went to his house, he pushed sex at a...
The V-Spot: Why Do I Cry After Climax?

V-Spot: Is Hormone Replacement Therapy the Key?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 4, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m a transgender male, no bottom surgery yet (there’s a good chance it’s not even in the cards for me, anyway) and I’ll be starting HRT (hormone replacement therapy) soon. I’ve always been very frank with partners that I’m not comfortable with being touched,...
The V-Spot: Why Do I Cry After Climax?

The V-Spot: My Love No Longer Dominates

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 20, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, Food Booze and Beyond, The V-Spot

Hello from Vienna, Austria, Yana! Over the years I’ve realized that I like being dominated in sex. I want strong men who play with my brain, mainly verbally. A year ago I met a guy on a kinky hookup app. We went out on a date and hit it off immediately. In the...
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