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The V-Spot: Exploring Kink After Trauma

The V-Spot: Exploring Kink After Trauma

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jul 3, 2018 | Columns, Featured, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Writer’s note: this column discusses sexual assault and trauma. Hey Yana! I’ve been seeing/having sex with this guy for a little while now. I really (really really) like him and feel super comfortable with him and we’ve had super good conversations about boundaries...
The V-Spot: Exploring Kink After Trauma

The V-Spot: How Do I Move Past Old Heartbreak?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jun 18, 2018 | Articles, Columns, Featured, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m a dude in my mid-thirties struggling to recover from a sort of recent break-up (over a year ago). We were together for seven years. The last three of those years were spent in couples therapy and the last year of our relationship was spent trying to be...
V-Spot: My BF’s Been Sexting Other Women

V-Spot: My BF’s Been Sexting Other Women

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jun 11, 2018 | Articles, Columns, Featured, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I was recently informed by someone that my boyfriend has been sexually texting another girl for several months, as well as had an active profile on dating site Plenty of Fish. When confronted, it took a few days but he did admit the truth to me. I am...
The V-Spot: Exploring Kink After Trauma

The V-Spot: My Boyfriend Read My Journal

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jun 1, 2018 | Articles, Columns, Featured, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I was dating a guy for about year when he told me he didn’t want to have sex with me anymore, but wouldn’t give me a concrete answer as to why. A few months later I found out he had read my journal (ugh) where I was comparing sex with him to sex with my...
The V-Spot: My Vagina is Ruining My Relationship

The V-Spot: My Vagina is Ruining My Relationship

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 14, 2018 | Articles, Columns, Featured, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! I’ve been with my partner for about a year, and in most ways our relationship is everything I want. We communicate really well, we have a great time together, our sex life is amazing, and I always feel supported by him. The problem is my vagina. For the first...
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