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The V-Spot: How Can I Be Poly, With A Heart?

The V-Spot: How Can I Be Poly, With A Heart?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 31, 2016 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana,I’m in my early 30s and have been polyamorous for a couple of years. Not long ago my wife of 13 years and I split. Now I’m kind of going through a dating/poly crisis. I strongly identify as poly despite not really having a primary relationship....
The V-Spot: How Do I Tell My Partners I’ve Got Herpes?

The V-Spot: How Do I Tell My Partners I’ve Got Herpes?

by Advocate Staff | May 16, 2016 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana,I’m 21 years young, genderqueer, very sexual, and polyamorous! I have a penis; I also have genital herpes. Is there a best time to tell a partner?If I have symptoms or have had them recently it’s not much of a conundrum because there’s no...
The V-Spot: How Can I Be Poly, With A Heart?

The V-Spot: Seeking Seduction Instruction

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 4, 2016 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana,My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Up until a couple of months ago, I was extremely satisfied with our sex life. He wanted me all the time and would initiate sex at least one to three times daily. Recently, we moved in together and it seems the...
The V-Spot: Help! My Orgasms  Went on Holiday

The V-Spot: Help! My Orgasms Went on Holiday

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 14, 2015 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hey Yana, I’m a 28-year-old female with a high sex drive. I’ve always found it easy to come with clitoral stimulation. When my partner and I have sex it’s not unusual for it to last over an hour. My guy loves cunnilingus almost as much as I love getting it. I often...
The V-Spot: Freaked About  Fellatio

The V-Spot: Freaked About Fellatio

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 16, 2015 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana, My friend seriously freaked me out when she told me that I should always use condoms for oral sex when I’m not in a longterm, monogamous relationship. Have I been sleeping on this or is she being dramatic? What are the transmission rates of STDs through oral...
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