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The V-Spot: How To Have an Erectionless Sex Life

The V-Spot: How To Have an Erectionless Sex Life

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Nov 11, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m a 32-year-old straight cis man and I was recently involved in a nasty bike accident resulting in injury and permanent erectile dysfunction. I can no longer get or maintain an erection even with the aid of injections, Viagra, pumps, etc. I enjoy giving...
The V-Spot: How To Have an Erectionless Sex Life

V-Spot: He’s Having an Affair With Me

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Oct 21, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Dear Yana, I had an affair and I feel like the worst person ever and I don’t know what to do. The guy is married with kids and says he’s basically living as roommates with his wife. I think she’s catching on and I want to end it because I feel like the worst person in...
The V-Spot: How To Have an Erectionless Sex Life

V-Spot: I’ve Got Prozac Problems

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Oct 14, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’ve been on Prozac since I was 15 (I’m 22 now), and never really realized how much it fucks with your sex drive until recently. My boyfriend and I had a lot of sex during the honeymoon phase of our relationship (who doesn’t?), but now it’s been 18 months and...
The V-Spot: How To Have an Erectionless Sex Life

V Spot: How Do I Talk To My Partner Directly?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Sep 30, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Dear Yana, I’ve noticed that quite often in your column you point people in the direction of clear, direct communication in relationships; establishing boundaries, asking for what you need, and so on, which is great advice that always feels so simple and elegant when...
The V-Spot: How To Have an Erectionless Sex Life

V-Spot: Actually, I will answer this fake question

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Sep 24, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Dear Yana, My attachment style is avoidant Scorpio but my partner is a totally secure Gemini. He says anal sex will fix all of my avoidance problems, but I think we should just bring in a third and be polyamorous instead. What do you think we should do? Sincerely,...
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