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The V-Spot: Oceans Apart

The V-Spot: Oceans Apart

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 5, 2018 | Columns, Featured, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, We met when we were 15 years old on the other side of the world. We were instantly attracted to each other and even made out on the first night. Saw each other over the years randomly on vacations, weddings etc. Tried to stay in touch and hang on to something...
The V-Spot: Where’s My Bleepin’ Orgasm??

The V-Spot: Where’s My Bleepin’ Orgasm??

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 22, 2018 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Dear Yana, I’ve been with my boyfriend for a couple years now. We’re just now starting to experiment in our sex life. I’ve known how to make myself vaginally orgasm for a few years now. And he knows what positions I need to do to make this happen. But it’s gotten to...
The V-Spot: We’ve Got Different Sex Drives

The V-Spot: We’ve Got Different Sex Drives

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 16, 2018 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, My partner and I seem to be in different places when it comes to sex. We have fabulous sex when he’s up to it, but in general I have a higher sex drive and want to be more adventurous. We both have histories of trauma and deal with it in different ways. I’m...
The V-Spot: Changed and Confused

The V-Spot: Changed and Confused

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 8, 2018 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m a queer non-binary femme. My partner (also queer and non-binary) and I have been together for just about three years. In the past year, I have been doing a lot of emotional work — processing lots of trauma, shame and doing a lot of digging and learning....
The V-Spot: Where’s My Bleepin’ Orgasm??

The V-Spot: I Get Ghosted After One Night

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 2, 2018 | Articles, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’ve had an above-average number of sexual partners (70+) and at least half have been one night stands. The pattern is: I start talking to someone on OKCupid, we arrange for a date, we have a few drinks, have sex. Sometimes, it’s more mutual, and neither of...
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