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V-Spot: Not The Sex Life I Want

V-Spot: Not The Sex Life I Want

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 27, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I didn’t think this was a real problem or, that it was just me. I didn’t think about it until I got into an argument with my husband, when he said “Why don’t you have sex the way when you’re drunk, when you’re sober?!” I really never thought about it till...
V-Spot: Not The Sex Life I Want

The V-Spot: How do I have a good threesome?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 20, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hey Yana, It’s looking like a threesome is on the (close) horizon for me and my partner. I feel extremely secure in the relationship. I absolutely trust him and he’s been nothing but supportive of me and my feelings when the subject of threesomes has come up in the...
V-Spot: Not The Sex Life I Want

V Spot: How Long Do I Stay in My Marriage?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 13, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Yana, I’ve recently come to terms with the fact that I don’t want to be in my marriage anymore. One reason is that I’m going through a period of intense awakening — I’m connecting more deeply to my emotions and my body while also healing from childhood trauma. Part of...
V-Spot: Not The Sex Life I Want

V-Spot: Is He Cheating By Watching Porn?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 6, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Note: In this column, we talk about gender-exotifying porn. Hi There, I have a major problem and don’t know how to proceed here. I’ve been married for 15 years and the last 10 have been sexless. To be clear, I’m the woman and he’s the man who chooses not to have sex....
V-Spot: Not The Sex Life I Want

V-Spot: How do I stop avoiding my partners’ partners?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Dec 30, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! I’ve been practicing polyamory for three years. Right now I have two serious partners. Both of them have sex with other people occasionally, but not with any regularity. My jealousy isn’t nonexistent, but it’s manageable. My big problem is that once my...
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