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The V-Spot: My Sex Drive’s Back But My BF’s Isn’t

The V-Spot: My Sex Drive’s Back But My BF’s Isn’t

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 24, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Leisure, The V-Spot, Wellness

Writer’s note: This column mentions depression and suicidality. When me and my BF first got together about a year and a half ago, we were having the best sex of our lives! Then I decided with the help of my therapist that I needed to be medicated due to suicidal...
The V-Spot: When Did I Get on the Relationship Escalator?

The V-Spot: When Did I Get on the Relationship Escalator?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 3, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

I have a few questions about monogamy. I guess, part of it stemming from a recent post I saw on your Instagram — @the_vspot — about “The Relationship Escalator,” polyamory, and monogamy. In my last partnership, my partner and I were very intentional about not falling...
The V-Spot: Our Sex Is All About Him

The V-Spot: Our Sex Is All About Him

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 27, 2017 | Articles, Columns, News, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and we’re best friends. Mutual respect exists in almost every way between us. Sometimes, however, the sex feels, well, sexist. First, he enjoys watching porn together, but I really don’t. However, he always tries to...
The V-Spot: When Did I Get on the Relationship Escalator?

The V-Spot: When it Comes to Self-Lovin’ What’s Better: Lube or Lotion?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 20, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Leisure, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

I recently saw a guy friend masturbating with lotion instead of lube and was wondering if lube would be a better alternative for him. If so, could you explain why? — A Little Help for My  Masturbating Friends One of my favorite conversations to strike up with my...
The V-Spot: Our Sex Is All About Him

The V-Spot: I’m Hot; He’s Cold: Clash of the Libidos

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 13, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot, Wellness

I recently started dating somebody who ticks nearly all of the “right” boxes for me. This is the first time since breaking up with my sweetheart of over two years that I’ve felt this way, and it’s really exciting. There’s only one hiccup: He prefers...
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