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The V-Spot: Why Can’t I Have Sex Without Drinking?

The V-Spot: Why Can’t I Have Sex Without Drinking?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jun 14, 2016 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Editor’s Note: Sexual trauma is addressed in this week’s column.Hi Yana,I can’t seem to want to have sex unless I’m drunk.This has always kind of been the case, except for when I was a teenager, and horny all the time (and not drinking). Then when I got to...
The V-Spot: Why Can’t I Have Sex Without Drinking?

The V-Spot: I’m stuck in a cum-nundrum!

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jun 6, 2016 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana, My partner (cis-male) and I (queer bisexual lady) enjoy getting super hot and bothered with each other, but we’re both frustrated with my seeming inability to orgasm. When we’re fooling around, just warming up, sometimes clitoral stimulation gets...
The V-Spot: Why Can’t I Have Sex Without Drinking?

The V-Spot: How Can I Be Poly, With A Heart?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 31, 2016 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana,I’m in my early 30s and have been polyamorous for a couple of years. Not long ago my wife of 13 years and I split. Now I’m kind of going through a dating/poly crisis. I strongly identify as poly despite not really having a primary relationship....
The V-Spot: My ‘Orgasm’

The V-Spot: My ‘Orgasm’

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 23, 2016 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hello Yana,I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. We’re in our 20s, and he’s a few years older than me. There have been times when we’re intimate when he doesn’t provide me with oral sex. He’s never close to ejaculating while inside me. He only does so...
The V-Spot: My ‘Orgasm’

The V-Spot: How Do I Tell My Partners I’ve Got Herpes?

by Advocate Staff | May 16, 2016 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana,I’m 21 years young, genderqueer, very sexual, and polyamorous! I have a penis; I also have genital herpes. Is there a best time to tell a partner?If I have symptoms or have had them recently it’s not much of a conundrum because there’s no...
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