by Masculinity and Its Discontents | Dec 17, 2006 | Masculinity and Its Discontents
My wife, under the normal-est of circumstances, has big nipples. Under the pregnant-est of circumstancesnow, for instanceshe has truly very quite big nipples. Nipples which are, these gestational days, more or less erect constantly. Throw in a general...
by Masculinity and Its Discontents | Dec 19, 2006 | Masculinity and Its Discontents
I think it was a lesbian friend who first talked to me about the male gays, as opposed to herself, one of the female gays – a play on words, of course, referring to the male gaze, which I think it will serve us to have a definition of before we proceed with this...
by Masculinity and Its Discontents | Dec 21, 2006 | Masculinity and Its Discontents
This past Sunday morning, at about 9 a.m., our neighbors’ dogs were out in their backyard barking again. And when I say “again,” I mean it with as much venom and resentment as you can cram into the word “again.” When the neighbors...
by Masculinity and Its Discontents | Dec 23, 2006 | Masculinity and Its Discontents
I was watching a video stream of Barack Obama’s recent speech in New Hampshire, and I was struck less by his ease and eloquence than by his participation in the old “my wife is better than me” tradition of politickinga trope that I’ve...
by Masculinity and Its Discontents | Dec 24, 2006 | Masculinity and Its Discontents
I hate to give props to any large company, and even less so to an insurance company, and I know I’ve said it here before, but man do I love my Geico caveman. I was first hooked by the airport commercial: his sensitive (cave)male sensitivity, his disgust. The...