by Masculinity and Its Discontents | Dec 26, 2006 | Masculinity and Its Discontents
So here I am in snowy Boulder, Colorado on Christmas Eve. We (the wife, the mother-in-law, the aunt and uncle-in-law) are going to the 9 o’clock mass this evening at one of the Catholic churches in town. This will be my third Christmas Eve mass in a row. The...
by Masculinity and Its Discontents | Dec 28, 2006 | Masculinity and Its Discontents
In “After” I wrote about the few words of wisdom I managed to offer to a friend consumed with that good ole guilt and shame over his pornographic obsessions: I told him that once I started talking about it in therapy, once “I stopped beating myself...
by Masculinity and Its Discontents | Dec 29, 2006 | Masculinity and Its Discontents
Last night I dreamt that Stephen Colbert was my friend. He had read something of mine and contacted me about it and we became pals, were going to work together on some project. It was all very exciting. Then suddenly we were in a building that was collapsing. I was...
by Masculinity and Its Discontents | Dec 31, 2006 | Masculinity and Its Discontents
The scene was the Dozens diner, a block or two away from the Denver Art Museum. Jessica and I were having lunch with Brian Terwilliger, who is Jess’s oldest friend (they grew up on the same block in South Windsor, CT).Brian had ordered a Denver omelette, no...
by Masculinity and Its Discontents | Jan 3, 2007 | Masculinity and Its Discontents
Hugo Schyzer calls himself a feminist. We called him a puritan, among other things:I ran a serialized follow up essay to “Peep Show,” the essay that brought Dan and me together, in six parts, called “After.” We wrote about the male gaze, not...