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The V-Spot: I’m Just Not Jealous and My Partner is Pissed

The V-Spot: I’m Just Not Jealous and My Partner is Pissed

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 22, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana!! I’m 19 years old and I recently ended my first really serious relationship that lasted about a year. A big reason we ended it is that I felt a little restless and wanted to explore an open relationship. I did a lot of research and we both felt comfortable...
The V-Spot: I’m Just Not Jealous and My Partner is Pissed

V-Spot: How Do I Help My Partner Without Being His Healer?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 15, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, Food Booze and Beyond, The V-Spot

Dear Yana, My new reciprocated crush is terrified of and obsessed with sex. He hasn’t had many good experiences, and I’m excited to potentially be a part of his new, positive experiences. But I’m also nervous and feel a lot of pressure to navigate his sexual trauma....
The V-Spot: I’m Just Not Jealous and My Partner is Pissed

V-Spot: I Caught My BF on Grindr

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 8, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, Food Booze and Beyond, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! I’ll just dive right in — it’s come to my attention my boyfriend has Grindr on his phone. He was talking to multiple people, sending scandalous pictures, and making plans to have sex. We’ve talked about this and he says it’ll never happen again and he’s...
The V-Spot: I’m Just Not Jealous and My Partner is Pissed

V-Spot: What Do I Do With My Dude Pubes?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 1, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I have a question I’ve been wondering about (okay, obsessing about!) and I do not think I am alone in this one: What does a man need to do about hair “down there”? I keep my pubic area trimmed but unsure what is the best and safest method for my scrotum. Any...
The V-Spot: Why Do I Cry After Climax?

The V-Spot: Why Do I Cry After Climax?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 26, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m perplexed as to why, for the last 20 years, I start bawling like a baby when I masturbate and orgasm. It only happens when I envision my ex-lover, who I had a five-year extramarital affair with in the ‘90s. We were both musicians in a college town. We...
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