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V-Spot: How Do I Help My Partner Without Being His Healer?

V-Spot: How Do I Help My Partner Without Being His Healer?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 15, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, Food Booze and Beyond, The V-Spot

Dear Yana, My new reciprocated crush is terrified of and obsessed with sex. He hasn’t had many good experiences, and I’m excited to potentially be a part of his new, positive experiences. But I’m also nervous and feel a lot of pressure to navigate his sexual trauma....
V-Spot: How Do I Help My Partner Without Being His Healer?

V-Spot: I Caught My BF on Grindr

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 8, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, Food Booze and Beyond, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! I’ll just dive right in — it’s come to my attention my boyfriend has Grindr on his phone. He was talking to multiple people, sending scandalous pictures, and making plans to have sex. We’ve talked about this and he says it’ll never happen again and he’s...
V-Spot: How Do I Help My Partner Without Being His Healer?

V-Spot: What Do I Do With My Dude Pubes?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 1, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I have a question I’ve been wondering about (okay, obsessing about!) and I do not think I am alone in this one: What does a man need to do about hair “down there”? I keep my pubic area trimmed but unsure what is the best and safest method for my scrotum. Any...
The V-Spot: Why Do I Cry After Climax?

The V-Spot: Why Do I Cry After Climax?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 26, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m perplexed as to why, for the last 20 years, I start bawling like a baby when I masturbate and orgasm. It only happens when I envision my ex-lover, who I had a five-year extramarital affair with in the ‘90s. We were both musicians in a college town. We...
The V-Spot: Why Do I Cry After Climax?

The V-Spot: How Do We Get Our Sex Life Back After Abortion?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 18, 2019 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hey Yana, A couple weeks ago my boyfriend and I decided we weren’t ready to have a baby just yet in our life, and we got an abortion. After previously going through one in an abusive relationship years ago, this time was much easier on me and he was very supportive...
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