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V-Spot: He’s Afraid to Cuddle

V-Spot: He’s Afraid to Cuddle

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jul 17, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, My partner and I have different sex drives. I could have sex four to six times a week, while he feels more comfortable with about two. In the beginning, we had a lot of sex and I was ecstatic thinking that our sex drives were more matched. Now, not so much. I...
The V-Spot: Do I Talk Too Much in Bed?

The V-Spot: Do I Talk Too Much in Bed?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jul 10, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

I recently started going out with this girl, but it already feels like we are magnets to one another (both inside and outside of the bedroom). But the last time we had sex an issue came up that broke up that magnet-like feeling for me. I’m someone who really wants to...
V-Spot: He’s Afraid to Cuddle

How Does a Shy Girl Ask for the Sex She Wants?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jul 3, 2017 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Check out a video of Yana’s Q&A with the Valley Advocate. Hi Yana, I’m a bisexual woman in a LTR with another woman. My issue is that I’m super bashful when it comes to asking for what I want during sex. I’ve been partnered for a while now and even though...
The V-Spot: Do I Talk Too Much in Bed?

The V-Spot: He’s Monogamous, I’m Polyamorous — Can This Work?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jun 26, 2017 | Articles, Columns, The V-Spot

Hi Yana! I’m currently in a mono-poly relationship. My primary partner is monogamous and has no interest in being with other people. He is reading More Than Two by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert and is searching for resources when feelings of jealousy or envy come up....
V-Spot: He’s Afraid to Cuddle

Should I Date Someone I’m Not Attracted To?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jun 19, 2017 | Articles, Columns, Newsletter, The V-Spot

I met a girl on a dating app. It was sort of an accidental swipe, but we started chatting and met up. She was really cool to hang out with, but physically, I didn’t find her very attractive. We kept talking and started spending time together. Now it has been a...
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