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The V-Spot: How to break the habit of not having sex

The V-Spot: How to break the habit of not having sex

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 24, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, My partner and I get into the habit of not having sex. We have a bunch of kids, full-time jobs, and all of that. It causes emotional tension to build and then we use that as an excuse to not sexually connect. We fall into a very platonic state. However, I’m...
The V-Spot: How to break the habit of not having sex

The V-Spot: We’re BOTH Healing From Trauma

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 17, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Writer’s note: In this week’s column, we talk about childhood sexual abuse. Hi Yana, I’m a childhood sexual abuse survivor and I worked really hard to put my mental and emotional well-being back in order. I met my husband during the initial stages of my healing and he...
The V-Spot: How to break the habit of not having sex

The V-Spot: Can I open up my relationship to date my ex?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 10, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m currently one year and six months deep into a heterosexual relationship with my boyfriend. I’ve long regretted not asking for an open relationship from the beginning. I’m bisexual and I’ve always been in monogamous relationships. For the past two to three...
The V-Spot: How to break the habit of not having sex

V-Spot: My long-distance partner doesn’t want video chat sex

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 3, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, My partner and I are temporarily in a long-distance relationship and he’s expressed discomfort with video chat sex. It sounds like it’s mostly based in discomfort with being naked and vulnerable in front of a camera, feeling unsure about how to make...
The V-Spot: How to break the habit of not having sex

V-Spot: Not The Sex Life I Want

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 27, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I didn’t think this was a real problem or, that it was just me. I didn’t think about it until I got into an argument with my husband, when he said “Why don’t you have sex the way when you’re drunk, when you’re sober?!” I really never thought about it till...
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