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The V-Spot: We’re BOTH Healing From Trauma

The V-Spot: We’re BOTH Healing From Trauma

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 17, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Writer’s note: In this week’s column, we talk about childhood sexual abuse. Hi Yana, I’m a childhood sexual abuse survivor and I worked really hard to put my mental and emotional well-being back in order. I met my husband during the initial stages of my healing and he...
The V-Spot: We’re BOTH Healing From Trauma

The V-Spot: Can I open up my relationship to date my ex?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 10, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m currently one year and six months deep into a heterosexual relationship with my boyfriend. I’ve long regretted not asking for an open relationship from the beginning. I’m bisexual and I’ve always been in monogamous relationships. For the past two to three...
The V-Spot: We’re BOTH Healing From Trauma

V-Spot: My long-distance partner doesn’t want video chat sex

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 3, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, My partner and I are temporarily in a long-distance relationship and he’s expressed discomfort with video chat sex. It sounds like it’s mostly based in discomfort with being naked and vulnerable in front of a camera, feeling unsure about how to make...
The V-Spot: We’re BOTH Healing From Trauma

V-Spot: Not The Sex Life I Want

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 27, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I didn’t think this was a real problem or, that it was just me. I didn’t think about it until I got into an argument with my husband, when he said “Why don’t you have sex the way when you’re drunk, when you’re sober?!” I really never thought about it till...
The V-Spot: We’re BOTH Healing From Trauma

The V-Spot: How do I have a good threesome?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jan 20, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hey Yana, It’s looking like a threesome is on the (close) horizon for me and my partner. I feel extremely secure in the relationship. I absolutely trust him and he’s been nothing but supportive of me and my feelings when the subject of threesomes has come up in the...
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