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The V-Spot: Masturbation, how much is too much?

The V-Spot: Masturbation, how much is too much?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jun 16, 2015 | Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Dear Yana, Is it normal for my husband to jerk off four times in a day? And then not want me? — XO Dear XO, Maintaining a certain amount of individualism while you’re in a relationship with someone is a completely healthy — and, in fact, recommended — thing to do,...
The V-Spot: Dating clichés that need to go

The V-Spot: Dating clichés that need to go

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jun 10, 2015 | Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

So many sex and dating clichés, so many hot-tub induced yeast-infections, accidental sex farts, and awkward threesomes. Here’s to half-a-dozen intimate “ideals” that gotta go: ∎ Subtly hit on your crush. No. Make that flirting obvious as hell. I don’t mean in a...
The V-Spot: At The End of My  (Long-Distance) Rope

The V-Spot: At The End of My (Long-Distance) Rope

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Jun 2, 2015 | Columns, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hello Yana, I’ve been seeing a great guy for almost a year now who lives one and a half hours away. We’ve seen each other less than 15 times in the past year and I do 90 percent of the driving. We talk all the time through texts, but almost every weekend we make plans...
The V-Spot: Something Borrowed, Something Lubed

The V-Spot: Something Borrowed, Something Lubed

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 27, 2015 | Columns, Leisure, The V-Spot, Wellness

Dear Yana, Hey! I have a lube question and I thought who better to ask? My friend is going to be losing her virginity on her wedding night and is wondering what the best lube out there is — especially considering she hasn’t used any before, is unsure of allergies, and...
The V-Spot: Tying to Get Kinky

The V-Spot: Tying to Get Kinky

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | May 20, 2015 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot, Wellness

Hi Yana, My girlfriend and I are in college and we’ve done some like really, really basic BDSM: blindfolding, a little handcuffs, and some bondage stuff, but nothing serious. Now we want to do some tying down. What would you suggest? — Tie-Guy Dear Tie-Guy, Like a bad...
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