The V-Spot: I’m Just Not Jealous and My Partner is Pissed
Apr22

The V-Spot: I’m Just Not Jealous and My Partner is Pissed

Hi Yana!! I’m 19 years old and I recently ended my first really serious relationship that lasted about a year. A big reason we ended it is that I felt a little restless and wanted to explore an open relationship. I did a lot of research and we both felt comfortable with it in theory but when my partner started having intercourse with other people, my partner became angry that I wasn’t having any feelings of jealousy. I know an open...

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V-Spot: How Do I Help My Partner Without Being His Healer?
Apr15

V-Spot: How Do I Help My Partner Without Being His Healer?

Dear Yana, My new reciprocated crush is terrified of and obsessed with sex. He hasn’t had many good experiences, and I’m excited to potentially be a part of his new, positive experiences. But I’m also nervous and feel a lot of pressure to navigate his sexual trauma. I’m a slut and love sex and am not afraid of it. It’s difficult for me to understand the nervousness, no matter how much I care about him. I want to always heal and work...

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V-Spot: I Caught My BF on Grindr
Apr08

V-Spot: I Caught My BF on Grindr

Hi Yana! I’ll just dive right in — it’s come to my attention my boyfriend has Grindr on his phone. He was talking to multiple people, sending scandalous pictures, and making plans to have sex. We’ve talked about this and he says it’ll never happen again and he’s sorry. He can’t explain why he was talking to other people, and swears up and down he is straight. How do I learn to trust him again? How do we move forward? — Findrs Keeprs...

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V-Spot: What Do I Do With My Dude Pubes?
Apr01

V-Spot: What Do I Do With My Dude Pubes?

Hi Yana, I have a question I’ve been wondering about (okay, obsessing about!) and I do not think I am alone in this one: What does a man need to do about hair “down there”? I keep my pubic area trimmed but unsure what is the best and safest method for my scrotum. Any recommendations on products? Even considered getting it lasered, but I do not think I am up for that. Does it even matter to most women or is this something men have...

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The V-Spot: Why Do I Cry After Climax?
Mar26

The V-Spot: Why Do I Cry After Climax?

Hi Yana, I’m perplexed as to why, for the last 20 years, I start bawling like a baby when I masturbate and orgasm. It only happens when I envision my ex-lover, who I had a five-year extramarital affair with in the ‘90s. We were both musicians in a college town. We started our affair in our early 30s and broke up in 1990. Since then, I’ve enjoyed a satisfying sex life with several men. But when I bring myself to orgasm, I think of him...

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