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The V-Spot: Can My Clit Learn to Trust Again?

The V-Spot: Can My Clit Learn to Trust Again?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Mar 2, 2020 | Articles, Featured, The V-Spot

Dear Yana, I recently got out of a seven-year relationship and a five-year heterosexual marriage. Initially, we had a very regular and healthy sexual relationship but over time it disintegrated to an essentially sexless relationship. He had an affair and we divorced....
The V-Spot: Can My Clit Learn to Trust Again?

The V-Spot: How to break the habit of not having sex

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 24, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, My partner and I get into the habit of not having sex. We have a bunch of kids, full-time jobs, and all of that. It causes emotional tension to build and then we use that as an excuse to not sexually connect. We fall into a very platonic state. However, I’m...
The V-Spot: Can My Clit Learn to Trust Again?

The V-Spot: We’re BOTH Healing From Trauma

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 17, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Writer’s note: In this week’s column, we talk about childhood sexual abuse. Hi Yana, I’m a childhood sexual abuse survivor and I worked really hard to put my mental and emotional well-being back in order. I met my husband during the initial stages of my healing and he...
The V-Spot: Can My Clit Learn to Trust Again?

The V-Spot: Can I open up my relationship to date my ex?

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 10, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, I’m currently one year and six months deep into a heterosexual relationship with my boyfriend. I’ve long regretted not asking for an open relationship from the beginning. I’m bisexual and I’ve always been in monogamous relationships. For the past two to three...
The V-Spot: Can My Clit Learn to Trust Again?

V-Spot: My long-distance partner doesn’t want video chat sex

by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Feb 3, 2020 | Articles, Columns, Featured, The V-Spot

Hi Yana, My partner and I are temporarily in a long-distance relationship and he’s expressed discomfort with video chat sex. It sounds like it’s mostly based in discomfort with being naked and vulnerable in front of a camera, feeling unsure about how to make...
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